In the age of e-thots and onlyfans whores, how do you compete?

Because, look, a man will go on almost ANY website and will see girls showing off their bbl asses (see pic related)

You think your bf/husband wouldn't see this online and ask why aren't you wearing this on the regular, even tho she herself very likely only wears that for her simps to get easy money?

Also, how's this empowering?