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7/14/2025, 7:30:57 PM
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Two reasons. The main reason is we just sort of fell out of love. No big fight or drama or cheating or anything like that. One day we realized we had become roommates who have sex a lot instead of lovers. We kept living together as roommates for a couple more years after we broke up (never slept together again after breaking up plus we had separate bedrooms). We got along just as well as always. Did chores together, made and ate most meals together, watched some shows and movies together, played some games together, tried new bars/restaurants together.
The next biggest reason is her life goal was to move across the country to a state and a big city I had zero interest in ever living in. I had visited that city a couple times before so I wasn't completely uninformed. I didn't like the weather, the people, the architecture, the politics, the traffic and the huge increase in cost of living. I wanted to settle down in the smallish town area I was living in at the time (which I did). She wanted to leave this area of the country and never look back. When she moved out it was to move to that city. We kept in touch and occasionally gamed together for a few more years. I think the last time I talked to her was 2019.
If we weren't completely incompatible on where we wanted to eventually live I might have pushed for couples therapy and tried harder to reignite the spark when we sat down to discuss breaking up. But that issue of where to live long term had reared its head several times before we broke up and it was clear neither of us would budge, so I decided to cut my losses.
Two reasons. The main reason is we just sort of fell out of love. No big fight or drama or cheating or anything like that. One day we realized we had become roommates who have sex a lot instead of lovers. We kept living together as roommates for a couple more years after we broke up (never slept together again after breaking up plus we had separate bedrooms). We got along just as well as always. Did chores together, made and ate most meals together, watched some shows and movies together, played some games together, tried new bars/restaurants together.
The next biggest reason is her life goal was to move across the country to a state and a big city I had zero interest in ever living in. I had visited that city a couple times before so I wasn't completely uninformed. I didn't like the weather, the people, the architecture, the politics, the traffic and the huge increase in cost of living. I wanted to settle down in the smallish town area I was living in at the time (which I did). She wanted to leave this area of the country and never look back. When she moved out it was to move to that city. We kept in touch and occasionally gamed together for a few more years. I think the last time I talked to her was 2019.
If we weren't completely incompatible on where we wanted to eventually live I might have pushed for couples therapy and tried harder to reignite the spark when we sat down to discuss breaking up. But that issue of where to live long term had reared its head several times before we broke up and it was clear neither of us would budge, so I decided to cut my losses.
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