I love trans men. How do I find a trans boyfriend as a cis straight woman?

any troons hooked up with a male enby? a black one is basically begging to fuck me and he doesn't give off total male chaser vibes, but he's been very persistent. other trans females have been horrible flakes and wannabe whores that call it polygamy and enby seem like the no nonsense option that isn't a total man that'll strangle you

Is it true that the fai/int/arc scaling for aow's caps at 50, like how the scaling for spells caps at 80? Talking about Elden Ring ofc. Pic unrelated.

I want to have a foid as something like a living dress-up doll: designing her outfits, dressing her myself, doing her makeup, controlling what she eats, showing her off as a walking decoration etc. Not really interested in any kind of romantic dimension since I only love one woman (even though she'll never be mine), though I acknowledge there's an inherently erotic aspect to the arrangement.
I'm good at hypnosis which might facilitate things somewhat but I don't think many girls would be fond of the idea. Feedback on how I could sell it/make it happen would be appreciated, especially from fembots.