I'm also terrible for getting caught up in the moment and forgetting the mission.

Like I'll get enjoying the flow of the conversation and then forget that I'm actually on a date trying to court this woman. I stop being strategic and often forget about flirting, touch, and setting up for the kiss. I mean it's good being in the moment and not being anxious but I take it too far and lose sight of the objective.
Alcohol makes this even worse. I had 2 beers last night with her on an empty stomach and totally lost sight during the 2nd half of the date.

Any tips on sticking to the mission while on a date?