I am an eccentric bachelor to the urbanites of Kaunas, not an incel loser. Europeans have always been fond of foreign eccentrics. Lithuanians are very courteous and attentive to others in public settings. Still, being at the bottom of the affluence and desirability ladder can leave you feeling glum and alienated from the happy chatter, unable to patronize any of the businesses you see. Middle-aged men and women notice me, but never the pretty girls. Two days is enough; tomorrow I move on to Siauliai.