>>33263995
Thanks for the pointers fren
I think you're right, my mistakes might have been forgivable IRL and we could move swiftly along - plus she has my body language, voice and physique to be attracted to. Online it's just the words, and I find it hard to drop the self-depreciating "please pick me" angle
>>33263988
Wish I'd thought to send that instead. I've attached my opener.
I think it's more my mindset, I want to embody whatever it is that would make a brief and to the point opener come to me instead, without the self deprecation. I think it takes a lifestyle change, and I am aware that I need to do it, but I keep falling back on old habits.
>>33264001
I live in a country with a strong drinking culture, so in my case I think this was okay