For me, it's not even that this stuff is in the setting, so much as that they introduce it and then immediately wipe away any negative impact in might have in a medieval society.

Crippled, maimed or otherwise physically disabled? We have magical wheelchairs and prosthetics that are arguably better than being able-bodied.

Playing as a woman? Our medieval society now has complete gender equality.

Playing as a gay character? Our medieval society is also completely tolerant and accepting of LGBTQ+. And as a bonus, we DON'T have any weirdness you might find in history or in the east that might make players uncomfortable. Our gay culture has a perfectly un-problematic and just a mirror image of modern Western gay culture.

And naturally things like racism, slavery, rape, torture and the like don't happen here and they are banned from being mentioned in our campaigns. Nor do you have to struggle with difficult concepts like a race of monsters born into evil.

I just don't understand want this soft, edgeless adult kindergarten bullshit. It's the Care Bears with elves and wizards.