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6/16/2025, 1:25:02 AM
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24 y.o. NEET here. perfect grades in high school top of my class, went to college and realized I missed the starting gun. no one told me how anything works (immigrant parents) so I couldn't navigate socially and didn't know what to get career-wise out of college
desu, and I think no one wants to or knows how to articulate this even on 4chan, I think sexual humiliation is a big factor. In the US you go to college as a normal man and get the impression that most of the girls around you are having sex and going out every weekend. You can't do that because you're a normal man and didn't join a frat. so you have to spend your weekends playing vidya or nightwalking. It's not even a matter of not having friends, you have friends and they're mostly dudes so you can't get into parties. Or you befriend a woman/group of women and you're beholden to them to let into these functions and then it doesn't even matter as much because you're already fucking the girl who let you in, so the function of parties as sexual access to the opposite sex is moot.
Again you're not a spastic or actually autistic or anything, maybe a bit withdrawn or shy and certainly not ugly. But these things are not enough as a man, and no one told you that. So eventually you figure it out and become masculine and get a girl or two and you realize it's still so much effort it's not worth it a lot of the time. Why would I stress myself over meaningless work? nobody seems to want me anywhere, having to kick and fight 24/7 to justify your existence in places while women just coast and society pretends like we're all having equal experiences is straight up degrading.
people go where they're appreciated and if they're not appreciated in employment, education or training they're not gonna go there if they can get all their basic needs covered by mom and dad's house and vidya/anime/porn/whatever other band-aid escapist solution.
24 y.o. NEET here. perfect grades in high school top of my class, went to college and realized I missed the starting gun. no one told me how anything works (immigrant parents) so I couldn't navigate socially and didn't know what to get career-wise out of college
desu, and I think no one wants to or knows how to articulate this even on 4chan, I think sexual humiliation is a big factor. In the US you go to college as a normal man and get the impression that most of the girls around you are having sex and going out every weekend. You can't do that because you're a normal man and didn't join a frat. so you have to spend your weekends playing vidya or nightwalking. It's not even a matter of not having friends, you have friends and they're mostly dudes so you can't get into parties. Or you befriend a woman/group of women and you're beholden to them to let into these functions and then it doesn't even matter as much because you're already fucking the girl who let you in, so the function of parties as sexual access to the opposite sex is moot.
Again you're not a spastic or actually autistic or anything, maybe a bit withdrawn or shy and certainly not ugly. But these things are not enough as a man, and no one told you that. So eventually you figure it out and become masculine and get a girl or two and you realize it's still so much effort it's not worth it a lot of the time. Why would I stress myself over meaningless work? nobody seems to want me anywhere, having to kick and fight 24/7 to justify your existence in places while women just coast and society pretends like we're all having equal experiences is straight up degrading.
people go where they're appreciated and if they're not appreciated in employment, education or training they're not gonna go there if they can get all their basic needs covered by mom and dad's house and vidya/anime/porn/whatever other band-aid escapist solution.
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