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7/1/2025, 1:55:37 AM
What do the Women think?
Met this girl about a year ago and we really hit it off. We hooked up, and that had some drama associated with it but that's another matter.
Right from the start of the relationship this girl stated she wanted to get married and I told her I was open to idea and that I wasn't too into the idea except as a stepping stone to having children.
After 2 months she started talking about weddings and shit like that. I indulged her in her musings and after a while she said she wanted to get married within a year. I told her this was way too soon and we both go in circles about the reasons but I didn't feel like marrying anyone in a year. She said instead of getting married we should do a hand tying ceremony and described it as a cutesy relationship thing and I agreed. Since I was pretty serious about this and thought, hey I might marry this chick, let's move in together and see what's up.
Afterwards I googled the hand tying ceremony and it's basically marriage. I confronted her and told her I felt tricked, She said she never tricked me and obviously it's what she meant.
Ever since most fight we had/ve go back to this topic about her not wanting to wait and me insisting we wait (at least more than a year or two). Thing is her instance and pushing to "closeness" to the point I feel I have to fight for privacy or time alone made my answer turn from maybe after more time knowing each other to I don't want to marry at all anymore. I have already told her this and she told me that a requirement for the relationship for her is to get married but it feels like we just put a pin in the situation and forgot about it until 2 weeks ago where she cried to me about it and says she feels horrible about not getting married yet.
Met this girl about a year ago and we really hit it off. We hooked up, and that had some drama associated with it but that's another matter.
Right from the start of the relationship this girl stated she wanted to get married and I told her I was open to idea and that I wasn't too into the idea except as a stepping stone to having children.
After 2 months she started talking about weddings and shit like that. I indulged her in her musings and after a while she said she wanted to get married within a year. I told her this was way too soon and we both go in circles about the reasons but I didn't feel like marrying anyone in a year. She said instead of getting married we should do a hand tying ceremony and described it as a cutesy relationship thing and I agreed. Since I was pretty serious about this and thought, hey I might marry this chick, let's move in together and see what's up.
Afterwards I googled the hand tying ceremony and it's basically marriage. I confronted her and told her I felt tricked, She said she never tricked me and obviously it's what she meant.
Ever since most fight we had/ve go back to this topic about her not wanting to wait and me insisting we wait (at least more than a year or two). Thing is her instance and pushing to "closeness" to the point I feel I have to fight for privacy or time alone made my answer turn from maybe after more time knowing each other to I don't want to marry at all anymore. I have already told her this and she told me that a requirement for the relationship for her is to get married but it feels like we just put a pin in the situation and forgot about it until 2 weeks ago where she cried to me about it and says she feels horrible about not getting married yet.
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