When i was drunk nd going on about getting my d*ds phone number by msging my stp sister that ave not spoken to in years my big cousin was like that "Message her then" nd am like that But it would be bad because xyz nd this n that nd shes like "What? Jst send a message" I find it quite reassuring sometimes,,When am proper spiralling about something nd the odd occasions that i do get to bounce it off somebody else Nd they tell me its not something to be bothered by,I nvr know if am doing the right thing in life,Or committing a faux pas,like messaging my stp sister,when we havent spoke in a few years,I thought it could be some horrific thing to do that ppl would find out and gossip about it nd how terrible I am.Well am still not got round to it but maybe i will.