Well I guess she's British so that's why she conventionally fits the notion of "good" I guess, but I just feel like I'm supposed to find someone like Birdy attractive, she's introspective, quiet, sensitive, she is cultured a bit, and at least spends some time reading. I think she is probably an infj.

https://youtu.be/WJTXDCh2YiA?si=qHteBl1fMIIvKFeZ

For all intensive purposes she has all the trappings of what would be considered good by some measure of the term. But I don't know, I guess she's just not really "german" enough for me necessarily or something I guess.

Which is kind of irksome, because it just makes everything more complicated and more difficult, like finding women I really like these days is that much more complicated.