recently a female coworker who I randomly made friends with told me her first impression of me is that I was "stuck up". It's not the first time I hear this, throughout my adult life I've had people tell me that I look stuck up, arrogant, intimidating, etc. meanwhile I'm just a regular guy. I try smiling at everyone especially at work but most of them don't even look at me.
how do I fix this? I don't know how to not look stuck up, I feel normal and am in a good mood most of the time (and I don't think I'm better than anyone), but this image I give off is interfering with making connections I think. what can I do?