Anons why are modern men insisting on their girlfriends being traditionally feminine but won’t put in the effort to be traditionally masculine?

It’s not fair to us to expect us to be submissive little pets and not repay us by being a dominant breadwinner. If you want a less traditional relationship you should want a have a less traditional girlfriend. But a lot of men online who say they want a less traditional relationship usually just mean “I want her to be traditional while I have freedom to be however I want”