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The vast majority of people - throughout recorded history - has not met their partners by approaching strangers. This is a myth perpetuated through media tropes, which boomers at some point ended up believing. The majority of people has always met their partners through repeated exposure in low stakes social settings, through mutual friends, attending the same classes, working in the same department, partaking in the same hobbies, etc. Only a minority of extraverted men has asked out random people and only a minority of extraverted women responds well to it. Most people would rather take things slower in a more controlled environment - which is also why dating apps aren't working well.
The best advice for loner autistic incels is not to attempt to be some extravert and make a fool of themselves but to try to make friends, expand their circle of friends, become more social in general. People don't like to hear this because they don't actually want friends, they want a girlfriend, but what they don't understand is that their lack of a social network is the reason they haven't found someone.