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6/29/2025, 12:12:49 AM
>>40199911
(2/2)
>It was a pleasant and cultured environment.
Hmm. Besides falling with the wrong crowd, it sounds like you did meet some people of interest then. As you said,
>Even at uni, they were the minority...
which is.. unfortunately true, but they are there. Do you think you could, even if just to meet some, go to a nearby uni physically and take a course? Is that completely out the window? I fully understand that you would rather be alone. And.. given the quality of people you had to deal with, is that a surprise? But.. if you spearfished just two or three of the brand of person we are currently describing.. I think it would be immensely healing for you.
>I get those sometimes too. I used to get them a lot more, but I've learned to handle them on my own to some degree (meditation routine)
I want to take a moment though to point out that this is impressive as hell. It really takes a lotta strength. Your situation is really not an easy one, and I don't know how much my heartfelt sympathy means here. Maybe my attempts to try to get you among people worth your time seem misguided or unrealistic. But.. I feel like I have a general sense for the type of person you are and I do believe that the lack of meaning you see in things is caused by an unmet need that the right social env would meet.
Wanna tell me about Spinoza?
>>40205426
>I can levitate birds, but nobody cares
And what if I do?
>>40196504
>18 months in and I've become consumed by my relationship.
Hmm.. you can't really quench a social need with just anything. You probably want to hang with other people. How many friends do you have besides bf that you are close with?
(2/2)
>It was a pleasant and cultured environment.
Hmm. Besides falling with the wrong crowd, it sounds like you did meet some people of interest then. As you said,
>Even at uni, they were the minority...
which is.. unfortunately true, but they are there. Do you think you could, even if just to meet some, go to a nearby uni physically and take a course? Is that completely out the window? I fully understand that you would rather be alone. And.. given the quality of people you had to deal with, is that a surprise? But.. if you spearfished just two or three of the brand of person we are currently describing.. I think it would be immensely healing for you.
>I get those sometimes too. I used to get them a lot more, but I've learned to handle them on my own to some degree (meditation routine)
I want to take a moment though to point out that this is impressive as hell. It really takes a lotta strength. Your situation is really not an easy one, and I don't know how much my heartfelt sympathy means here. Maybe my attempts to try to get you among people worth your time seem misguided or unrealistic. But.. I feel like I have a general sense for the type of person you are and I do believe that the lack of meaning you see in things is caused by an unmet need that the right social env would meet.
Wanna tell me about Spinoza?
>>40205426
>I can levitate birds, but nobody cares
And what if I do?
>>40196504
>18 months in and I've become consumed by my relationship.
Hmm.. you can't really quench a social need with just anything. You probably want to hang with other people. How many friends do you have besides bf that you are close with?
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