>>40031697
>babe I love playing therapist, what ya drinking?
Some cans of twisted tea. Not the best or the classiest drink but fuck it, it does it's job. As far as the gender divide you're not wrong. I don't blame them if they are nervous or on edge about a man approaching, but that isn't the vibe I've gotten from them. It's more like they are offended because maybe they just wanted to be left alone, which is fine, but when you're in a public setting like a bar or a club, these have been theoretically social spaces for decades. If someone approaches you and is at least respectful, the least you can do in return is to be respectful when you deny their advances. They aren't scared of me, they're angry that I interrupted their night and they don't see me as enough of a human being to empathize that I have feelings too. Women don't understand that men don't get social interactions unless we initiate.
>there aren't wrong reasons, you want someone to understand you and click with you, and you no longer care what gender they are
Pretty much
>being a self hating bisexual is still under the umbrella babe
Fair enough. I still don't fully know if I am or not. I don't mind the idea if I'm actually bi, but if there's a possibility I'm straight and just that desperate from crippling loneliness seems like a humiliating concept. Also, but a straight white guy most of my life I'm not really used to being included in umbrellas. More of a scapegoat for most peoples problems while my own problems get ignored if I'm being honest. I've been blamed most of my life for a lot of historical issues, even though I've never mistreated anyone in my life