Does anyone have experience with lip percings or more specifically snakebites?

Piercer told me for recovery I should move around the jewelry through the hole a couple times when I clean it, is that true? It just hurts for a ridiculous amount and everywhere online tells me to never touch them during recovery process.

Another question, the swelling is so crazy it feels like i got botched lip fillers, are my lips really supposed to almost double in size overnight? I got my snakebites 2 days ago but even then this feels like a lot.

Any advice for healing at all is appreciated