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>my family spreading falsehoods maliciously
brother, if you have a family who would do this, maybe your family is shit
if your family is shit maybe you didn't grow up with love and companionship
if you didn't grow up with love and companionship maybe you don't really know how great it can be to give and receive

don't deprive yourself by freezing other out
at the very least, leave yourself open to the possibility