>>40031879
>I don't see the same depth in my guy friends that I personally feel
>There's as much variety within men as there is within women
also ngl, the women at clubs are prolly the girls who are on the lower depth level like your guy friends xd
but I get you don't have anywhere else to meet girls cos of the isolation crises that's hit our generation(26 bttw), I have my bf, but I don't feel like I have any other friends, and 0 way to meet people, I'm not gonna approach strangers and there's nothing forcing people into a group with me like in college
we live in an era where you need to meet people on your own, with no way to meet people on your own, which is grim
>There's never usually even time for there to be a disconnect in my experience. Usually just saying hi and asking for their name gets me angry glares and silence for the few seconds it takes before I get the message and fuck off
also ngl, I think this is based on the setting, a club
they make assumptions that you can't avoid based on your surroundings, your dress, you being a dude, and you don't have the power to change most of those
I'm not much of a club goer, but my only advice on that matter, is if you're still gonna try clubs to meet people, find girls who look like they don't fit in and try talking to them :/

>Feels like being a back up plan for a generation of women who neglected me and treated me like shit, who ultimately ended up single because they couldn't get commitment out of the men they actually wanted
the other sad part of that, is I can't say you're wrong, but also the girls with depth in their personalities that you might've clicked with have prolly found bfs already
I got mine at 24, you're 28
the window on meeting people the same age as you, who aren't just husks, and also are single is fucking small I imagine xd
cont ;-;