>>40154168
I'm not technically transitioning but yes I do know that. She is still attracted to me but has some trauma related to men and had a breakdown when we where play fighting because she felt like "a man held her down". I might be deluding myself into thinking that I can make the changes not as apparent.
>>40154178
I think she would be okay with the surgery as a concept, she has never seen my chest and is fine with never seeing it. I need tk find a way to not have her associate it with me "becoming a man" or having a "male identity". She is very accepting but has a hard time with change.
>Be ready for potential break up.
We are moving in soon and I plan on proposing in 2026 or 2027 so hopefully not.