I hear sometimes, for androphilic trans women (like obvious ones, ones who were flamers before transitioning), that your friends and family asked why you couldn't just be gay instead of being trans when you came out as trans.
Now, I know gender dysphoria is real and can't be tamed without hormones, but just hypothetically, if somehoe you could have just been gay, do you think the people who told you to be gay instead of trans actually would have fully accepted you as gay if you hadn't become trans at that point?

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