>>40038038
Take your time and take care sig anon. I hope things are progressing as smoothly as possible, even if it’s hard.

>>40040002
Ouch, any idea what’s been causing it? No matter what it’s probably a good idea you forced yourself to sit down. It’s annoyingly easy to go too hard on joints and muscles when you’re used to ignoring pain signals, or when your drive overrides them. (Used to do it a lot when I used physical exercise as self-harm)
>not used to forgiveness
>dont feel safe doing that
That makes sense, even if Im sorry to hear it, navy anon.
The worst part is that guarded behaviour like that in adulthood can signal a past lower position in the status quo, which some people then use as grounds for further alienation. Feigning a “normal” level of emotional openness and trust towards acquaintances is a requirement for them to treat you like a part of the flock to some extent, I think, which I’m aware is kind of an unpleasant thought that may negate what I said about the average person being moderately forgiving if warned. I guess everything comes with an asterisk, sadly.
>behaviour mostly triggers at work
Hmm. Are there any specific work contexts where it seems worse?
>sounds like she hasn't adopted healthy behaviour in regards to that so not sure you'd get useful advice
Thats actually a really good point... Thanks. I hadn’t really thought of that before.