I feel like there is no optimal solution.
Constantly telling women that they have unrealistic standards and trying to 'negotiate' with them achieves nothing.

Even if you were to convince them to give a shot to an average man, everyone involved would suffer. Obviously, if you never got laid, you'd see it as a total win. But from my experience, and seeing other people's marriages, when the "lesser" man gets the woman, she'll deep down resent the fact that she couldn't do better.

This will 100% show itself in how she treats her man. Indifference, disrespect, nagging, sex being weaponized as an uncommon reward(and even then it's unenthusiastic), talking(and maybe sucking) to other men, etc. I been in such a situation, and it's not fun.