>>33228308
I was in a very similar position anon. I started thinking of the future and marriage, and every time I thought about us getting married I just couldn't see it. That's when I realized I was wasting her time, so I broke it off with her.

I'd always been uninterested in having kids, but then I met a woman at work who changed my mind. She's super responsible, motivated, and smart - then, on top of that she's cute and fit.

I felt an overwhelming desire for her and found myself even fantasizing about having kids with her and raising them together. That's when I realized I wasn't against having kids, I was just against having kids with my exes.

Now, whenever I meet someone I ask myself, do I see myself having kids with this person? Would she be a good mother to my children, caring for them and teaching them and serving as a good role model?

If the answer is no, I stop immediately. It's saved me a lot of heartache, not just now but hopefully in the future too.