the secret to dancing well is the same as the secret to doing anything creative:

THE SECRET TO DANCING WELL:
Allow allow your body to become a silent musical instrument
Your movement is going to be the 'sound' you're making

You are the instrument THEY FORGOT TO INCLUDE IN THE SONG

Do you understand what i'm trying to say?
Listen to the music, the mathematics of the music...
And you will realize THEY FORGOT TO INCLUDE ONE INSTRUMENT.... it has its own unique melody, that fits in perfectly to the math of the song...

Let your body be that missing instrument
Let your motion be the melody they forgot to include
By using this technique, people sitting at tables will see you and realize "this person is actually dancing"... not just swaying your body back and forth...
but actually EXPRESSING THE MATHEMATICS OF THE MUSIC

That's the same way to approach any creative endeavor
You have to find the thing that other people forgot to include....
And do it in your own way

I feel sorry for today's younger generation(s)
That's plural.....
Because at this point i'm so god damn old, that there's more than one of you whippersnapper generations...
I feel sorry for the millennials...
Feel sorry for generation z
Or whatever the fuck you guys are called
Because the world changed
And most of you don't even realize it
Little do most of these young people realize: is things used to be SO COOL, but it stopped right before you were born

And i'm not joking...
Coincidentally enough...
All the cool fun stuff stopped
right before most of you guys were born
.... So those guys don't even know what they are missing

But it's hard to feel sorry for them for too long, because even though the world changed, that doesn't mean the old school techniques stopped working

Just because of technology and apps like tinder, that doesn't mean you won't have to go introduce yourself face to face...