>>11337863
Sounds like you are doing it too fast. Get a good pose that targets your prostate. Do it slow and get hard in the right mental space.
cannot tease the p-spot well if it is not hyper sensitive.
>>11337872
this is largely right, for the fact that the prostate is more sensitive if you get turned on by something.
a dominatrix with a strapon works too, doesn't have to be gay, just taboo or humiliating.