All this confusion, believe it or not, is not because you "hate" women like feminists would claim, but because you expected more from women than savage animal instinctive behavior from them, and they disapppinted you. It's not because women act like animals... it's because you were sold the lie that they were more than that. That they were your "equals."

It's because you were sold the lie that a woman could be trusted to make the choice to pick the right man for themselves, to have control over their bodies, to trust them as an "equal". Feminism burns people, because it sells the lie that women are to be trusted.

But once we make that transition in our minds to basically see everything women do as reactive/selfish/bullshit, everyone adjusts accordingly, and the damage is mitigated.