Is it true the old saying about dating, for men its a desert and for women its a swamp, in both cases you cannot just have a fresh drink?

Why do women like other guys posts on social media when they already have a boyfriend they say they are loyal to and in love with??

When women say they want emotional depth, why do they reject the man who reflects in favor of the one who accommodates her narrative?

If women's dating profiles say "looking for a guy with an active lifestyle who cares about being healthy for his future" why, when given a choice, do they swipe on skinnyfat alcoholics and not swipe on the 300 pound guy who went on Ozempic last year and walks 70 miles a month and lifts now and is down from 400?