I think Viet kieus (Overseas Viets as they call them in Viet Nam), are very different from vietnamese from Vietnam. I can speak for the real vietnamese, have a vietnamese wife: It really depends. If you are just a foreigner living here and don't speak the language you will have a bad time. But if you try to make an effort and learn the language and treat this country like any other, then people here can be extremely friendly. Really depends what type of person you are really, every lip has a pot as they say. The trashy girls go with trashy men, and then there's extremely pretty and inteligent girls that go with white guys that are just as handsome and inteligent. Some of the yellow fever loser white guy in asia memes are true for a reason, but they really don't apply to everyone realistically. For example, in english teacher circles, the meme is more real. In different things like martial arts, or some sort artistic creative fields etc, its a different story. And yes, vietnamese girls are on average way, way, way hotter than most european girls, and its because of the food, the lifestyle, and cultural things they got like taking care of their hair and staying slim and toned and have soft skin etc etc, its not genes so much but more about the way people is brought up here. Which is great, I wish back in my home european country women weren't as shitty. i love white girls, is just proportionally at a local level, 7/10 viet girl is leagues above a 9/10 girl in my hometown, easily. There's hotgirls in Europe sure, but the ratio is way way off compared to Viet.