>>33395749
In my mind, the issues are:
>she was, outside of conflict resolution, a really good girlfriend. Cooked for me (very good cook & baker), cared for me, gets on really well with friends & family, similar values as it pertains to marriage, kids, politics, keeps herself fit, plans out dates and things to do together, etc.
>we live together and the contract for our flat is very specific, so we can't move out for 11 months. It's a one-bed flat with a living room (so one of us would turn the living room into a bedroom), but there's still the emotional turmoil of living in the same space.
If she didn't change, I'd really regret getting back together with her. If she does change, assuming I can get past my subconscious worries about conflict resolution, it'd be fine (I think...). She had initially suggested she remove all expectations for me, or ignoring most frustrations, and I'd worry I'd make an environment where she'd never bring up things that bothered her out of fear of the breakup happening.