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ID: uykm/rOi/biz/60679409#60684702
7/24/2025, 4:39:05 PM
>>60679409
Don't worry about it. Obviously worry about it though since it's bothering you a bit. Sorry to hear about your situation but part of life is realizing that we're going to have to work with people that we don't necessarily like. Does that make them bad? Maybe?
But at the same time you have to remember that you're not there to socialize, you're there to work. If he tries to give you shit for not talking just be like "Hey man do we mind if we talk about this later, I have to get this done." Using people's names when you say something psychologically makes them more open to listen to you, so you can also say something like. "Yo so and so, I'm really busy right now and I need to focus on this." If it gets to be a problem you can report it to your supervisor since no one deserves to get bullied at work. As a Latino, I have to work with assholes like this too, and I mostly keep to myself. I only really talk during lunch breaks. He's probably trying to be a macho man, which can be annoying. Never give him a reaction, and if you do just try to make it funny. When you work a lot with other men, we tend to just bust balls and shoot the shit with each other. Try to not take things too seriously and focus on your job. If you need help, then try to sound sincere. If someone else needs help then definitely try to help them too. This guy is probably trying to figure you out, and just wants to push your buttons.
Don't worry about it. Obviously worry about it though since it's bothering you a bit. Sorry to hear about your situation but part of life is realizing that we're going to have to work with people that we don't necessarily like. Does that make them bad? Maybe?
But at the same time you have to remember that you're not there to socialize, you're there to work. If he tries to give you shit for not talking just be like "Hey man do we mind if we talk about this later, I have to get this done." Using people's names when you say something psychologically makes them more open to listen to you, so you can also say something like. "Yo so and so, I'm really busy right now and I need to focus on this." If it gets to be a problem you can report it to your supervisor since no one deserves to get bullied at work. As a Latino, I have to work with assholes like this too, and I mostly keep to myself. I only really talk during lunch breaks. He's probably trying to be a macho man, which can be annoying. Never give him a reaction, and if you do just try to make it funny. When you work a lot with other men, we tend to just bust balls and shoot the shit with each other. Try to not take things too seriously and focus on your job. If you need help, then try to sound sincere. If someone else needs help then definitely try to help them too. This guy is probably trying to figure you out, and just wants to push your buttons.
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