>>149782482
Ragatha isn't actually nice. She's putting on a happy face because that is her coping mechanism. She does it because she grew up in an abusive home and can't deal with conflict. She isn't being emotionally honest, and that prevents emotional connection. Then when she gets overwhelmed, the mask slips and she lashes out at those around her, even Pomni.
People don't hate her for trying to stay positive, they hate her because she is incapable of dealing with discomfort and negativity. Jax and Gangle both complain about her being disingenuous. Pomni is also starting to see through her act, and growing more distant.

She screwed up her chance of being friends with Pomni in the very first episode. It was obvious to Pomni that Ragatha was hurt that she abandoned her for the exit and forgot about her. Instead of expressing it she said nothing. Then at the start of the next episode she downplayed it and told Pomni there were no hard feelings. Pomni reacts negatively then, and again when Ragatha tries to joke about it in the bar scene.
Where as jax starts to open up to her in episode 4 and then a lot in 5.