>>510802798
No one is saying you should totally abstain from nonvirgins, just that it is a bad sign, which it is, it is a statement of fact.

>we need to let go of unrealistic ideals
At the moment, with all the degeneracy and simps it is actually feasible to find a virgin tradwife, because of the lack of interest in such women. It is difficult of course, they have to work hard and probably move to another town and work on themselves to stop acting like a cringy bratty teenager and be a desirable tradhusband, however it is possible.