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7/12/2025, 3:16:22 AM
Is there such thing as being so pretty as a female that you don’t need social skills to have a social life?
I’ve been getting plastic surgery for the past almost decade. I went from a 3/10 to maybe a 7. I look pretty enough at most angles until I open my mouth revealing sort of fucked up smile like Joey king because I never got jaw surgery.
People aren’t as rude and don’t use me as the butt of the joke anymore.
I’ve always been nonverbal and don’t speak unless spoken to. In recent years I picked up some basic politeness social skills like asking people questions if they talk to me, giggling, and just being generally kind if spoken to.
Ever since that and plastic surgery people have told me things unsolicited like I’m very kindhearted and have been told that I’m very pretty.
I went through a phase at one job where I took caffeine pills and pushed myself to make jokes and conversation/connect over shared interests with my coworkers but they still noticed I was awkward and didn’t see me as a friend.
I’m now at a new job where there’s a lot of nice females I’d ideally want to be friends with but it’s just the same thing. At first I thought cool these aren’t Reddit bantery people with reference humor maybe these types of people will want to be your friend if you’re polite and not hideous. But i still come off as awkward because i don’t have much to say and cant do that complainey work talk people do.
I sometimes feel pathetic for not having any friends. The only friends irl I’ve had were girls who initiated everything and didn’t give up.
It makes me wonder if there’s girls out there who are 10/10 model types with a beautiful smile and have the same personality as me but easily make friends at work and wherever they go just because people overlook their awkwardness/see it as cute. If I keep looksmaxxing to the point of being Russian model tier, will social skills be more irrelevant?
I’ve been getting plastic surgery for the past almost decade. I went from a 3/10 to maybe a 7. I look pretty enough at most angles until I open my mouth revealing sort of fucked up smile like Joey king because I never got jaw surgery.
People aren’t as rude and don’t use me as the butt of the joke anymore.
I’ve always been nonverbal and don’t speak unless spoken to. In recent years I picked up some basic politeness social skills like asking people questions if they talk to me, giggling, and just being generally kind if spoken to.
Ever since that and plastic surgery people have told me things unsolicited like I’m very kindhearted and have been told that I’m very pretty.
I went through a phase at one job where I took caffeine pills and pushed myself to make jokes and conversation/connect over shared interests with my coworkers but they still noticed I was awkward and didn’t see me as a friend.
I’m now at a new job where there’s a lot of nice females I’d ideally want to be friends with but it’s just the same thing. At first I thought cool these aren’t Reddit bantery people with reference humor maybe these types of people will want to be your friend if you’re polite and not hideous. But i still come off as awkward because i don’t have much to say and cant do that complainey work talk people do.
I sometimes feel pathetic for not having any friends. The only friends irl I’ve had were girls who initiated everything and didn’t give up.
It makes me wonder if there’s girls out there who are 10/10 model types with a beautiful smile and have the same personality as me but easily make friends at work and wherever they go just because people overlook their awkwardness/see it as cute. If I keep looksmaxxing to the point of being Russian model tier, will social skills be more irrelevant?
7/3/2025, 5:22:50 PM
Let's say you one day see a 20 something ready to throw themselves of a bridge, and are suddenly granted with intricate knowledge of their life. Right now the 20 something, let's call them K, is extremely mentally ill and truly detached from society. They have no friends, no job or other responsibilities, they have forgone their lease and live in a car, are in no contact with their family, and have had no close human contact for over a year. If they were to die right now, truly no one would care. Their body would never be found, and it would be like they never existed at all. However, if you choose to step in and save K, they will go on to live their life, make new friends, fall in love, get married and have kids, and lead a somewhat happy life. However, the depression gnaws away at them, and eventually a few years down the line, there's an 80% chance K hangs themselves in the garage, forever traumatizing their partner, their young children and all of their loved ones. Knowing this, would you choose to save K or let them jump?
6/30/2025, 3:21:07 PM
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