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Now you're just coping. Or you're a delusional woman. Pair-bonding gets weaker and weaker after every partner.
The ideal number of previous partners for a bride is zero, and all men deep down know it.

>it doesn't mean she has to be a virgin for high tier men those standards don't exist
They don't have those standards because they can't afford to have them. There simply is no supply.
If men had a choice they aboslutely would prefer a young virgin over a used up woman.
Which is why this standard exists in every patriarchal society remaining in the world today.

> you can still have a loyal loving wife who will take on the traditional role
No. The more partners she's had the more unstable the marriage will be.
That's why innocence has been so prized in every patriarchal society that has existed in human history.