Around here when the boring fat bong speaks and we sit down and listen alright? And if someone wants to draw you into to defending a retarded straw man about The Trans Subjective Experience, you calmly discuss the matter with them. Or else

How am I supposed to start dating as a mid 20's virgin with absolutely no dating experience? I was ugly and a weird autist growing up and even my own friends often hated me and would turn on me for seemingly no reason. Finding people irl is hard and everyone knows dating apps are shit. I feel stunted since so many people my age have already had these experiences or are in happy long term relationships. I wish I could volcel but I've started getting very lonely and can't cope anymore by pretending to be schizoid.