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7/6/2025, 5:41:29 PM
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I don’t want to start whining or complaining about lookism but I also have put myself in a lot of social situations and nobody has ever proven me wrong in fact they usually just prove me right.
The main physical insecurity I have is my height, I live in Scandinavia so at 5 foot 8 I’m very firmly short (adjusting for averages I’d be on the same level as a 5 foot 6 man in the us). in real life people have mocked me for my height, called me a midget, told me I have a napoleon complex whenever I’ve been to extroverted and I constantly get told by people that my achievements are “compensation”. (Though I think the rest of me isn’t especially attractive either even though I try to keep fit to prevent myself from being even worse.)
What really solidified the idea that I am truly unattractive was just browsing women’s forums and dating discussions and seeing how women in the US which is shorter on average considered anything under 5 foot 10 short and undatable and how callous they were about it too just plainly insulting men who where short.
I really want to break out of this thinking and believe you because I don’t want to believe there is a fundamental ugliness to me but it’s reinforced everywhere irl, online, in media or even just by the fact I have to look up at the average guy. It’s just a inescapable fact of a gentic flaw and I just don’t know how to see it in any other light.
I don’t want to start whining or complaining about lookism but I also have put myself in a lot of social situations and nobody has ever proven me wrong in fact they usually just prove me right.
The main physical insecurity I have is my height, I live in Scandinavia so at 5 foot 8 I’m very firmly short (adjusting for averages I’d be on the same level as a 5 foot 6 man in the us). in real life people have mocked me for my height, called me a midget, told me I have a napoleon complex whenever I’ve been to extroverted and I constantly get told by people that my achievements are “compensation”. (Though I think the rest of me isn’t especially attractive either even though I try to keep fit to prevent myself from being even worse.)
What really solidified the idea that I am truly unattractive was just browsing women’s forums and dating discussions and seeing how women in the US which is shorter on average considered anything under 5 foot 10 short and undatable and how callous they were about it too just plainly insulting men who where short.
I really want to break out of this thinking and believe you because I don’t want to believe there is a fundamental ugliness to me but it’s reinforced everywhere irl, online, in media or even just by the fact I have to look up at the average guy. It’s just a inescapable fact of a gentic flaw and I just don’t know how to see it in any other light.
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