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I feel like this might also be a bit of an extreme position to have. There's a middle path between the two extremes. There's something to be said about sex being normal, and also there's the danger of becoming too preoccupied with it and becoming a whore. But imo its not really a big deal.

I'm a man btw so take that how you will but I like to think I'm at least rational and I'm trying to be genuine right now so. Yeah.

As a man sex feels as natural to me as peeing and pooping. There's a whole bit a guy does about this exact thought in one of the Harold and Kumar movies. Its by a klu klux klansmen and its a bit crass but he's also not wrong about it. An orgasm is like your body's third function (besides number one and two, some ppl even call it a number 3 lol)

Whats bad tho is how often egotism and toxic masculinity get entwined with sexual activity for men. Fuck the wrong man and suddenly the whole town will think you're a whore.

So, yes, sex should be a little bit sacred and special at least. You lose nothing by not having it. You could lose a lot by having it. I still think you should. Just don't go for a chad like an idiot or your neighborhood lothario. Try to do it with someone you love and trust.

Maybe experiment with some sex toys first? You also stand to lose nothing with this method.

Once you're a little more experienced you'll realize it's nbd and your body, nature and instinct will all help you know what to do when the time is right. I didn't need sex lessons. Penises naturally go into vaginas. Your body will know what to do. Its human nature.