>>527681552
People who go public about their fetish of being fucked up the ass are not the type of people to exude dignity, they already sacrificed it.
Gay people by the very grounds of their identity will be less hesitant to act shamelessly which is why they're very flamboyant and such, cause they don't care, they already had not to to, for some reason, have to share way too much information.
If you're trying to be the stoic dignified type while being open about being gay, you're just doing it to prove a point.