Confucius say:
Man who search for perfect editor, forget that true editing begins not with stat... but with self.

In ancient times, we had no save scum. No god mode. Just heart, will, and discipline. You wish for colonist with 20 in shooting, cooking, social without feeling guilty in your heart yet you cannot embrace true chaotic nature of life itself.
You want balance? Balance is not in modpack. It is in mind. In patience. In growing corn and taming thrumbo with hands of virtue, not dev console. Balance is in randomness.

So I say to you, Anon:
“He who seek balance through sliders and toggles forget true harmony is not in code... but in conduct.”
Close editor. Open heart. Do not ask game to be easy. Ask spirit to be strong.
Practice discipline.
What merit in perfect colonist, if the hand that lead them shake with rage and quick-save?
Learn to suffer cold snap, solar flare, and manhunting squirrel... with calm breath and steady hand. That is path to true enlightenment, not version 1.5.2 of “EdB Prepare Carefully.”

Thus spoke Confucius, tamer of idle pawn, unnatural healer of spirit.