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7/21/2025, 1:24:50 AM
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OK so me (gay top) and my bf (gay bottom) finally moved in to live together after a couple years semi-long-distance while we attended different universities.
Dunno really where to begin. Our relationship built up kinda slowly, at first we were just on-and-off with a more casual fuckbuddy type of dynamic whenever we'd be in the same place, and over time it just got more and more intimate and serious. Sexual infatuation was definitely the most obvious and noticeable "spark" that brought us together, but then in the margins of that, this emotional bond grew that just gradually became more and more important to the point where we were indispensable to each other. It sorta snuck up on me.
I have heard that love and relationships can be difficult, but it's all felt surprisingly easy with him. I had reservations about becoming "official" while we were still at a distance, because I've seen how LDRs can fail for other people. But it just happened naturally, we were talking and acting like we were official and making plans for the future, whether we called it that or not, so it just made sense to apply the label, and it actually made things far more comfortable when we defined it and committed to it. I had reservations about moving in, because I've heard how that can change a relationship - but so far it's just fucking great, it's so much better being close to him and coming home to each other than not, I don't even know what I was worried about. We're just good to each other, I think, we don't cause each other any drama without good reason, and neither of us does sketchy shit to each other. Any conflicts we've had start for sensible reasons and resolve sensibly. Idk. We just haven't had those pitfalls. I always feel like it shouldn't be this easy or simple, but so far, it just is.
(tbc)
OK so me (gay top) and my bf (gay bottom) finally moved in to live together after a couple years semi-long-distance while we attended different universities.
Dunno really where to begin. Our relationship built up kinda slowly, at first we were just on-and-off with a more casual fuckbuddy type of dynamic whenever we'd be in the same place, and over time it just got more and more intimate and serious. Sexual infatuation was definitely the most obvious and noticeable "spark" that brought us together, but then in the margins of that, this emotional bond grew that just gradually became more and more important to the point where we were indispensable to each other. It sorta snuck up on me.
I have heard that love and relationships can be difficult, but it's all felt surprisingly easy with him. I had reservations about becoming "official" while we were still at a distance, because I've seen how LDRs can fail for other people. But it just happened naturally, we were talking and acting like we were official and making plans for the future, whether we called it that or not, so it just made sense to apply the label, and it actually made things far more comfortable when we defined it and committed to it. I had reservations about moving in, because I've heard how that can change a relationship - but so far it's just fucking great, it's so much better being close to him and coming home to each other than not, I don't even know what I was worried about. We're just good to each other, I think, we don't cause each other any drama without good reason, and neither of us does sketchy shit to each other. Any conflicts we've had start for sensible reasons and resolve sensibly. Idk. We just haven't had those pitfalls. I always feel like it shouldn't be this easy or simple, but so far, it just is.
(tbc)
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