>>40142748
I get what you mean. There are so many little things about myself that I never gave a second thought until I worried that they might be "feminine" (I'm ftm). It will make you insecure about things like your skin, your eyes, your teeth, everything. But everyone is insecure about something, even cis people. You just have to keep going. Again, just chip away at that rock until it becomes insignificant. In my eyes, the only way you can "fail" transitioning is if you give up. If you're talking about passing, either you will eventually start passing with enough work and patience, or you'll stop caring about it so much.

I will say, a lot of this is easier achieved if you have supportive people in your life. My family puts me down constantly to this day, but I had a supportive group of friends and a great girlfriend who helped me carry the weight on the days it was the worst. Don't try and fit in somewhere it feels unnatural, just try and go where you're wanted.

>>40142841
So you only did something because you wanted to be accepted by other people, and somehow that makes me the moron?