Well for starters he clearly didn't do anything to get where he is right now, he knew what he wanted to be and do and worked hard/practiced to become good enough to make a living as both a tattoo artist and musician. In regards to the cars, vacations, and whatnot, he either has rich parents or is putting himself in debt to live his lifestyle. Also, surrounding yourself with people who are equally as ambitious and socially active is a big help. You also have to realize you're going to fail every now and again, I think your biggest problem is your lack of will and balls.