The majority of people are cattle who will fight you tooth and nail to sustain the degeneration of society that they’ve helped engender. No experience, no matter how blatantly illustrative of their false assumptions, will change their mind or “wake them up.” They will live in literal hell before they admit they were wrong, and kill you for trying to make things better.

I believe that all behavior is either fine or not fine, and that the background for why shouldnt excuse any behavior, but only soften or harden your response to it. It's not socially healthy to give too much leeway to bad behavior based on background, and I say this from the perspective of an orphan, it results in ridiculous mistrials like giving someone 3 months for child rape, and leaves peoples instinct for justice soft and flabby. Bad behavior is bad, good behavior is good, why you do which is only relevant for preventing it in the future, not preventing it now. Also, genetics are extremely underrated as a factor and are frankly more influential than environment, which is why I turned out fine and perfectly good families churn out mass-murderers and kiddy diddlers. If you don't hold people accountable you get hell on earth.