>>40083835
Yeh. Its not that I feel like my other properties are being devalued. Its just like...
Gosh
This is hard as fuck to explain because this has been THE big hangup for me lately, so bear with me here cuz my logic is likely backwards...
But, like...
Huh...
Okay here
If a woman is born with no arms
And a person pursues her because he likes her having no arms
It just feels ick?
Like, what if I had arms? Cuz thats the first thing I'd wish for if I found a genie, to have arms.
Would people who previously liked me just... stop???
Tho, your "guys that like boobs/ass" thing puts a hell of a weird spin on my fucked up logic. Like, am I wrong for melting over people who have freckles? Of course not, even tho some people really dislike their freckles.
But, I think a lot of it comes from just the pain involved. Like, dysphoria is intense pain. Ive had part of my spinal cord ripped out (worst pain of my life, felt like having a molten rod running from my ass to my toes for days til it went all numb) and id choose to experience that pain every day for the rest of my life just to not experience dysphoria. Chasers feel like they are looking at that spinal injury and going "ya, thats my thing"
Like, thanks for liking this gaping puss filled hole in my soul, I guess???
>>40083843
Dont get me wrong, 90% of my friends are trans or genderqueer and my partner is trans, so I dont have much ground to stand on... Glad you've had positive experiences, tho.
>>40083888
>unless youre attractive
The curse of being a generally attractive person, ig. Rarely experienced rejection for vulnerability - the one partner i ever had who didnt let me cry was actually a man!