I've figured it out
We are just a fractal expression of infinite consciousness in a kaleidoscopic spiral of different infinite timelines, but this is just one timeline. When you are around other people, its like they you are logged in to the same server in that moment (so to say) but when you leave you are back in your own timeline
knowing this has cause a lot of issues for me i feel like everything is pointless now, like legitimately feel like nothing matters