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Whatever qualities you believe it would be desirable to obtain in the opposite gender, know that you will lack them. If you want to be strong like a man, estrogen sabotages it. If you want to be beautiful like a woman, testosterone sabotages it. These hormones will always be higher in you than anyone born into those sexes.

Ask yourself, what is it particularly about womanhood or manhood that seems to me so desirable that I would cause my body real harm to obtain it, and why can't I psychologically obtain it any other way than by doing so? Can I 'obtain' the strength of a man by appreciating the physique of men? Can I 'obtain' the beauty of womanhood by being romantically involved with a beautiful woman who understands me and is very much like me in personality?

In general, look to a healthier route of psychological acquisition for those traits you so desire.