>>11326989
so it's mostly a matter of self-control. i couldn't do handsfree without my hands instinctively reaching for my p, because i had the thing where you can't get over the hump because the sensation is a little too intense and you sort of lose control of your body whenever you get too close.
so taking my genitals out of the picture entirely is what got me to actually be able to go hands-free to completion, because it was just extremely difficult and required me to not cum for an extended period of time to be able to get over the hump, and i wouldn't have done it if i had any other options. it was sheer desperation.
would recommend btw, it's significantly more work but it's vastly superior to any jork i've ever had. kinda wish i had found another human being so that they could just take care of the continued movement when my legs go limp, that would've been a substantially easier way to get over the hump, but i'm past it either way.