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Truth be told I see it as both, depending on how the writer wants to take it. Humiliating when they don't want to be in control, empowering when it becomes a power up, like https://exhentai.org/g/2438094/3b1fd4234e/?p=1 for example (although this might be cheating since it's both succubus and slime). Part of what makes it a great writing medium is you can go so many different paths with it