It was once normal in America to pay off a home on a single income within 10 years, often 5, and this was 70 years ago when we had a lower GDP per capita. Mexicans and Poles won't understand, for you poverty is the norm, but it doesn't have to be like this and wouldn't if we were a bunch of no nonsense extremely racist PTSD veterans like the typical 1950s American white man. To accept your lot is cuckoldry, pure and simple.